It's surprising to me how many people have said recently something to the effect of "well you know, they say that after you adopt it just happens." And most of these people knew that we did IVF!
My usual response is "well, no, actually I think it might have something to do with the three IVF's, the several hundred shots in my butt, and the $40K we spent."
Also, I think if it was just adoption that allowed us to get pregnant, it wouldn't have taken us another four years to get here.
These commenter's were all well meaning people, so I wasn't too harsh on them. I know they didn't mean to say something totally stupid.