The day we turned the curls into swirls! AKA Kiel's first haircut!

I've been holding off on getting Kiel his first haircut for far too long. I just wasn't ready to cut off his curls. But we had long passed the point of the curls being cute to anyone but his Mama.

We had reached the "business in the front, party in the back" point a couple months ago. But I still couldn't part with those curls! Then I caught a look at him the other day. He was wearing a button down short sleeve shirt and the sleeves had managed to creep up to his shoulders. With the long hair in back, and the sleeveless look going on, he was starting to look a little southern rock (if you want to look at it positively) or white trash (if you wanted to be honest).

So Saturday we drove to the local kids salon, where Noah and Kiel took a ride together.

Look Mom, a magic cape!

OMG, the curls are gone!

Lollipops and balloons make the process much easier.

Mommy is freaking out a little less and enjoying the cuteness!

So freaking cute!!!

And the awesome part of it is that the curls may be gone, but the swirl is still there! There are pictures of the swirl here from a year ago, when he was seven months old.

And again, I ask why

Yesterday Noah had another "incident" at camp. He was in the bathroom with another boy. No idea why both were in there since only one is allowed in at a time. And apparently it was only for a few seconds. But, he made the most of those few seconds and pushed the kid into the wall and put his hands on his throat.

When Noah was asked why he said "because I wanted to" and because "my brain told me to."

This scares the hell out of me!

Even Noah agrees he wasn't provoked. Nothing happened that in any way can "explain" this.

I know no one has an answer for me, but all I can think is "why" and what does this mean for the future?

Or am I just overreacting?

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And...in my usual fashion I'm late posting the winner. Sorry guys!

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Since they offered me custom stickers too I'm going to have some made up with my MNT logo,which Shauna just reworked for me. She also designed my business cards btw! Oh yeah, and my blog! I think she is just teh awesome!
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Nature Valley Granola Nut Clusters review

Recently MyBlogSpark sent me the new Nature Valley Granola Nut Clusters to try. When they sent me the initial email asking if I was interested I was all "sure, I love nuts, I love granola, why not." I fully expected to receive a small single serving size sample. Well, wasn't I surprised when the package came and it included a full size bag of each of their four flavors.

Here's a little blurb about this new product:

New Nature Valley Granola Nut Clusters are bite size clusters of nuts, granola and a touch of honey - a 100% natural, wholesome and delicious treat for any time of the day. If you are a lover of nuts, you´ll love what Nature Valley has done with this powerful little snack. It is the perfect combination of sweet & salty flavor and crunchy texture made from natural nut goodness that you can see and taste. And with a resealable bag it´s perfect for sharing either on the trails or in your living room!

New Nature Valley Granola Nut Clusters come in four tasty flavors; Nut Lovers, Roasted Almond, Roasted Cashew and Honey Roasted Peanut.

I first tried the almond flavor. And O.M.G. talk about little bits of heaven in a bite size cluster! Serious awesomeness! I wasn't surprised that I liked them to be honest. I love granola and I love nuts. So really, what's not to like? But, they were even better tasting than I had expected.

Rich has been all over the roasted cashew bag, and Noah will eat whatever variety we let him.

They are all good, but the roasted almost is my favorite!

For the nutrition conscious among you, the roasted almond flavor is 140 calories, 7 grams of fat, and 2 grams of fiber per serving. A serving is 7 clusters. Not a bad size, but I dare you to actually stop at seven!

I have learned though that my GI tract actually prefers that I not go overboard with them. But that's just me. And my not wanting to share the ummm..."goodness" with everyone at karate when I'm doing things like crunches. 'nough said I think.

I have no idea what they cost, but you can get a $1 off coupon here.

This is definitely a product we will buy and enjoy in the future! If you like granola, and you like nuts, I absolutely recommend you try them yourselves!

Do I laugh? Do I cry? Or do I just let my head spin around a few more times?

I know I've said before on MNT that my husband is one of the most intelligent people I know, but not at all in a cocky way. (I lurve myself some intelligence btw, but not the cocky kind. Rich has a friend that's intelligent and successful and super cocky, which all lends itself to super obnoxious, and totally not a turn on to me.)

So anyway...back to the point. Rich is a damn smart man, but he's a man after all, and for all you married women reading this I probably don't need to say much more. But I will share this little story with you. Because I'm still trying to decide if I should laugh or cry.

Yesterday I went a little insane and scared Rich and Noah into helping me clean because we had crossed the line into disgusting in a few areas of the house. I do love how they jump to my bidding when my head starts to spin around and frothy drool is spraying from my mouth as I scream.

The last thing I asked Rich to do was clean the toilets so the baby sitter wasn't afraid to actually use them while she was there that evening.

As an aside - because I feel its important you all know every little part of my life...Lately we've been using those disposable toilet bowl cleaners, where you keep the handle but throw away the scrubbing part. I'm not a big fan of keeping things around that have touched other peoples shit, so I really like the disposable part of it.

OK, back to the story. Rich and I cross paths on the stairs as he heads to the powder room to clean that toilet as I head to our bathroom to take a shower. I'm out of the shower and he comes in the bathroom to clean that toilet. I'm talking to him as I'm combing out my hair and he's scrubbing away at the toilet bowl. When ALL.OF.A.SUDDEN he takes the scrubby part out of the toilet and starts wiping it around the top of the toilet tank. You know, the top, where we put the extra roll of toilet paper, and a book or magazine or two.

And my head may have spun around again a few times as I not so calmly said "what the fuck are you doing?"

And he looked at me, with complete innocence and cluelessness on his face and said "what?"

"Shit, you just cleaned our shit with that and now you are putting it all over. Seriously. What are you thinking?"

"Uhhhh....but.....uhhhhhh"

I tossed him the spray cleaner. He caught it and looked at me with a blank look on his face. Because clearly he still didn't know what he'd done wrong.*

I'm not sure 24 hours later he's figured out why I was so completely grossed out. And believe me, I'm not easily grossed out.

I probably over reacted didn't I...


*Or does he?!? Is he smarter even than I give him credit for? Is this his attempt at appearing inept so I don't ask him to clean again?

And still, it is their loss.

I was sorting through some papers today and I came across the letter that my mother wrote in March. You know, the three typewritten pages full of how awful I am and what a shitty mother I am. Yeah, much love. I stupidly read the letter again today, just to see if it was really as awful as I remembered it. And yes, It was.

There has been no real contact since then, except for cards and flowers sent for birthdays, Mothers Day and Fathers Day. Dad got a cactus for Fathers Day. I wonder if he got the significance. Probably not. The cards include art work from the boys.

My mom sent a type written thank you note for the mothers day flowers. A couple weeks ago a box arrived with Noah's name on it and it was full of buckets and other cheap sand toys. They did send some stuff for Easter as well, like a bag of plastic eggs that needed to be filled with candy and some scary ass stuffed animals. They hang out at WalMart a lot it seems, now that one made it to Fowlerville.

So yeah, I read the letter, and I chuckled a bit. I've had time to process the ridiculousness of it. I do a lot of eye rolling when I think of it.

Yes, part of me still wants to respond to their crazy accusations and revisionist history. But, I know there is truly no point. They aren't going to change how they view our relationship.

So what we have here is a non-relationship. I am now the un-daughter and I'm getting more and more comfortable with it.

All my commitments to them were done in June once Fathers Day was over. Now I have no obligations to them until Christmas.

That is a huge relief!

It's a relief not having to make the weekly phone call, or respond to my mothers two sentence emails with the expected paragraphs.

It's a relief not having to try and explain Noah, his latest diagnosis, or treatment, or why he is at summer camp with a TSS.

It's a HUGE relief that we don't have to make the trip to visit them in Michigan, and that I don't have to put up with them in our house if they visit us here.

I'm still sad with the concept of what is going on - that we have no real contact with my family. It's a strange thing for me. But it is also very freeing.

I'm just sad that it seems I'm losing my brother and sister in law in all of this. I saw my sister was online on yahoo mail a couple weeks ago and I tried to talk to her. She answered me and we spoke for about 2 minutes, then she had to leave. I haven't seen her pop up since, so I'm assuming she has blocked me. Not surprising though that they would take the path my parents are on. I've always been the strange older sister to them too.

In which my insanity once again takes over and I prove just how pathetic I am

I have a mommy date next week! A second mommy date actually!!

Whoo hooo!

And

Eeekkk I'm nervous.

What if I blow it? What if I say something stupid, which I've been known to do, and she thinks I'm an idiot?

Oyyy...the pressure.

So, Kiel and I are going to the zoo with a mommy (Keri) and her little girl (Mia) that we met in Kindermusik class last spring. We had a play date with them at their house* a couple weeks ago and all had fun.

And now, a second date! Did I already say eekkkk?

I really like Keri, and we have a ton of stuff in common, and I really, really want her to like me and be my friend.

On the pathetic scale of 1 to 10 I'm at an 11 right now, right? Yeah, I thought so...


*I'm not even going to get in to the issue that their house is huge and gorgeous and absofucking spotless clean. You know, the total opposite of my house. Ughhh...